1. Comes 5 minutes late on a date.
2. Sit next to a guy that you are interested in.Most people think girls can be late to a date at least for 30-40 minutes, but that's an old school way of thinking. Come out early from your place then watch him come from aside. After 5 minutes, run out as if you were late to the place.
3. Act as if you are always interested.By a psychological theory, feelings are expressed through distance between people. As a girl gets closer to a guy, the guy feel more interested in a girl sitting next him. If you met a guy you are interested in, i highly recommend that you sit next to him rather than in front of him.
4. Don't be straight forward, learn to go around.Guys don't like girls who is strong minded. Unless the guy is a total turn-off, act as if you are listening to what he's saying and smile every-so-often to express how much fun you are having.
5. Use your cellphone.If you clearly express what you "like" and "dislike", it makes you look very strong. Try to avoid using negative words such as 'never' and 'hate'.
6. Act as if you get all the attentionTry not to ask a guy to a date, even if you are interested. However, you can send text messages that would leave guys that you are somewhat interested. This only works after the first date.
7. Be Random(?).I don't mean it as in being "i'm all that", but try to act as if you are someone who gets call from all the guys in earth. Try to keep the text messages and calls going, in order to make the opponent to think that you are the "popular" one. Even the calls from your girl-friends, lets try to act it out and transform them into calls from guy-friends.
8. Always leave something behind.The first impression that you want to get it across men, are that you are not boring. Somethings totally random like not answering your phone or not showing up on a date would make guys to feel in tense and that they need to keep in touch with you.
9. Use him as an advisor.Place like his room, office, car would be perfect to leave your phone, wallet or namecards. As in excuse, the guys would have to see you again. If they respond with, "i'll send it to you through mail", say you are close by and would pick you up. This requires somewhat of fast comeback skills.
10. Taste what he's eating.Someone who you tell your problems and seek advice from, has to be someone close. Act as if this little problem had broken your heart and depend on him by asking him for advice. But, do not ask advices for something that's really big. They might feel burdened by you.
11. Lure him into a physical touch.Take a sip of what he was drinking, or take a bite of what he has ordered. This take a big part in getting to know each other. It works the best especially when you use the same fork that he was using or use the straw that he used to drink his drink. This would let guys to think as if it was a physical touch even when it wasn't.
I don't mean it as in very sexual way. But if we were to pretend that you are in the situation where everyone's drinking. Act as if you can't take on much alcohol and lean on his shoulder. And when you go to places where there are lots of people, lean towards the person you are interested in as you've been pushed. Even by a slight touch of your body, he probably would feel sudden interest through human instinct. But try not to get too touchy, where he would think you are trying to hook up with him.
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grace! :] 2008/03/20 12:40 Modify/Delete Reply Address
i like this it's interesting.
kinda true, kinda not.
i think girls should just be themselves..
& not play mind games like that..
ShaiZer 2008/03/20 13:04 Modify/Delete Address
well it wasn't really a recommendation of what they should do, but really of what guys think or.. jus me... so, jus for a tip, if they want attention from a guy, from a guy's point of view.. cuz really, this isn't really going to help that much.. its jus a way to start it off.. and its all on their own ^^.. yeh.. dats all ^^ jus a simple opinion ^^.. and you know i like mind games ^^
Jenn :D 2008/03/20 14:05 Modify/Delete Reply Address
that's a funny! it's kind of cool since you can see.. what guys think kind of too.. so it's in a different perspective.. or kind of.. what you can kind of expect.. or see what happens if you were to do one of those things ^^ then.. maybe girls would be less.. hesitant to do certain things :D
ShaiZer 2008/03/20 14:13 Modify/Delete Address
lol i guess so.. maybe next time.. i'll be writing about what guys do.. that girls might feel junk about.. or.. what we think is right.. and you can criticize it ^^
idk.~
jason p. 2008/03/20 14:08 Modify/Delete Reply Address
am i like the only one who doesn't agree with it??o.O
ShaiZer 2008/03/20 14:14 Modify/Delete Address
yeh.. cuz you like mens.. LOL! >w< just kidding.. haha. but yeh.. way to support it ass hole.. LOL!!!.. it would be a help if you would criticize w/ support.. like saying why you don't agree with it.. and stuff.. instead of jus stating it.. looking like a douche.
Scottay 2008/03/20 14:47 Modify/Delete Reply Address
very interesting stuff. i guess most of it would definitely get you to notice a girl
ShaiZer 2008/03/20 14:51 Modify/Delete Address
^^.. emm.. just a bit ^^.. but not enough that you'll definately starting to like her.. after that.. is up to them.. and hey~ i know you went through all these.. haha.
Amos 2008/03/20 15:44 Modify/Delete Reply Address
LOL
Bur I & 2008/03/20 15:46 Modify/Delete Reply Address
Haha nice stuff man. You writing this for the girls or are you just gay? lol. help your fellow bros out.
ShaiZer 2008/03/20 16:00 Modify/Delete Address
i'm pretty sure i'm not gay.. but thanx.. yeups. i'll try write something for the dudes .. soon;; or.. eventually..
meh 2008/03/25 18:18 Modify/Delete Reply Address
Oppenheimer
ShaiZer 2008/03/25 20:45 Modify/Delete Address
i don't quite get what you've been saying for the last 3 comments.. but yes.. i can* track your ip.. so.. doesn't really matter whether you change your name or not.. but thanks for all the attention.. i appreciate it.