The reasons why daughters need a father

2008/09/20 11:17 / Interests/life tips

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Daughters Need a Father Who...

1. can give them belief that everything's going to be alright.

2. sacrifices himself in order to prevent daughter's sacrifices.

3. can teach them that there's something more important than
    just the way people looks; value of life.

4. are there to smile at their kids them,
    and give them hugs and kisses whenever they are in need.

5. make sure that their daugthers always have 'home' and 'family' that they can always return to.

6. the family can really trust and depend on.

7. instead of punishment for mistakes, make sure they learn something out from it.

8. teaches that everyone deserves and have rights to be treated equally.

9. teaches to tolerate the difference in all beings,
    and take responsible for every actions and its results as well as making decision upon it.

10. teaches how to be the one to take over one's heart.

11. are able to tell them that they are most beautiful person in the world.

12. protect them from the dark,
     and who gives answers to their worries.

13. can ease their complexed problems,
     and make for them their, pains into experiences.

14. teaches the importance of family puts family before anything.

15. turns anything/anywhere into a safezone.

16. can stand as a set example when choosing their men.

17. who may not always be with them, but who still influence them.

18. always makes sure that no one is useless.
     and walks his way through with them as they are lost in paths.

19. who can carry them to bed every night.

20. encourage them when they need to take risks in life.

To Be Continued...

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  2. Jenn :D 2008/09/21 08:25  Modify/Delete  Reply  Address

    awww.. all are so goood.. i don't think i experienced all of that before.. lol.. maybe with my mommy? :D but.. i think this can inspire a lot of people.. even though if they're not a dad.. or a mom.. and to just being a friend.. it can help a lot to always watching out for the people that you care for the most.. oOo! and i noticed that there are sub.. categories.. for interests? :D yayyyyy there are going to be even more interesting thingies on her now.. maybe.. ^^ and.. i saw you working tonight...? lol.. i was going to tell you hi.. but then.. it looked like you were busy.. and i didn't know if you would get in trouble or not.. >.<.. and.. to me it looked like you were doing okay ^^

    • ShaiZer 2008/09/21 23:31  Modify/Delete  Address

      emm.. i'm glad you agree to what i've been writing lately ^^; i would feel bad/junk if i write some nonsense.. and waste time doin so;. um.. and yeh i added in more sub categories :]. i've been reading lots of other interests and yeh it kinda is inspiring me to write more.. um.. and you saw me working?! -_-.. and yeh.. lol yesterday it was packed.. but a quick 'hi' would've been nice.. >w< lol.. i'm working today too though ^^;; haha.. idk how it would be, but.. hey.. i'm workin on our trip money.. so u keep it up!! :]

  3. Jaecie 2008/11/27 05:17  Modify/Delete  Reply  Address

    Haha np bout all the long comments v(-.^). I like reading your blogs so its an even exchange. Anyways I really like this blog. With all this info you better make a good dad or else! Haha jus joke lol. These are good qualities that many people should have and not only dads, but yes it is true that if a dad possesed all these qualities a daughter could feel very safe ^^. You always make such nice blog entries. Where is this nice emotional side to you in public? Haha. You know one day I am gonna see this side of you and I am going to give you a big smile o(^-^o).

    • ShaiZer 2008/11/29 00:09  Modify/Delete  Address

      i still don't think you'll come across seeing me with these things ^^.. maybe when I become a 'dad' which prob will going to be a long time from now ^^;; so i should say give up? ^^;

I want to know! Does s/he have feeling for me?!

2008/09/13 11:02 / Interests/Relationship tips

When it comes to a relationship, we often realize that the 'attachment' takes a bigger role than feeling of 'affection' itself. But the funny thing is, you just happen to feel attached to some people just by keep seeing each other. Unconciously, this feeling often turns into more of an affectionate feeling which we refer to as 'love'. If we think more deeply of these words another word pops up which fits nicely in between these words and it is 'amiable disposition'. But most of the time, you aren't too sure what the your opponent has to offer you. So! What are we supposed to do when this happens to us?

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1. Just meet up

Just meet up and share conversations with the person who you think has something towards you and someone who you feel there's something you have towards him/her. If the person gives you short answers to every question you ask, unless that has to do with his/her personality, you can start to assume that this person has no interest in you. It is recommended that you DONT make yourself feel better by just saying, 's/he probably is hiding his/her feeling because s/he is shy.'

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2. Check up on facial expressions  

There are some people who suddenly makes straight/frowning faces whenever you show up. There's two possibilities. Whether the person in front of you feels something that is beyond amiable disposition is just in love with you, or they just simply hate your guts. In this case, if a person seem to not pay attention to you or make bored faces, you can pretty much conclude that this person hates you.

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3. Check up on them whether they copy your moves

Check up on their moves? Well, not in a stalkerish way. This is just a technique that one of my friend uses. When having a meal or drinking a tea with the person, if the person drinks water/tea at the same time you drink water/tea, they definately have something for you. Sounds like a simple coincidence? According to a friend, towards the person you are interested in, you keep watching their every move. Therefore, unconciously, you see yourself copying their every move. It's a theory that sounds pretty convincing, so I use this technique every so often myself. BUT! there are always possibilities that this person could just simply be thirsty all the time.

I read it in some book that a person who's really good at fighting is not someone
who's good at making a beating, but someone who is not afraid to be hit.
I think it is same for relationship. Which side are you on?


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  2. Jenn :D 2008/09/15 07:53  Modify/Delete  Reply  Address

    i like this blog that you did :D the pictures are so colorful and pretty too.. but when i was reading this.. i could notice a lot of these happening before.. like.. the facial expressions.. lol.. you can tell when the person doesn't want to talk to you from the first impression that you would get from them.. like if they make a stink face.. or happy face :D.. and about the copying.. i think i do that without me even knowing >.< like un-consciously.. lol.. :D but i think that they are true.. it's kind of scary though.. because you have a easier feeling when the person is kind of rejecting you.. or does like you too.. but.. you never know what will happen ^^..

    • ShaiZer 2008/09/15 09:46  Modify/Delete  Address

      ^-^.. took me awhile to write this haha :].. bawt yeh.. there are more than just these three in figuring out how people feel about you, but i guess these are the most common ones that you can use to notice these things. i mean it'd be way easier for you, like you said, if you kinda have an idea of what they want out of you, but often, they don't really tell you these things. So, best of your ability, you have to figure out how to find out these things :]. Well.. there are lots of people out there who also uses something like this, so try to be as least expected as you can possibly be :] ganbate jenn! :]

  3. ray 2008/09/27 06:09  Modify/Delete  Reply  Address

    wow! it seems like you have a whole new take on your blog. it's pretty cool, i like it! :-D but really interesting stuff there, it's true. :-)

    • ShaiZer 2008/10/03 08:43  Modify/Delete  Address

      hey, thanx mang. i try haha.. i try.. i'll try to keep up the good work :]

  4. Jaecie 2008/11/19 06:33  Modify/Delete  Reply  Address

    Yea I agree with the part that says the more you see them the more attached you are to them. Well I learned that in Psychology ^^; That explains the Beauty and the Geek factor :P By seeing someone a lot you form more of a strong bond with a person. And haha I have had those short answer kinds of things before. Just trying to bring up a convo with someone and then all I get is a yes/no answer then akward silence -_-;; Lol about the facial expressions tho. Everyone must think you hate them since you always give them a evil look when they see you. Haha jus joke :P I don't know if I ever noticed the copying what you do thing tho... Maybe I am jus not paying attention ^^; I think I will try and spot that out from now on haha. If I remember... Anyways good blog. Kinda short tho haha there is only 3 things. You usually make a list of things. Ran out of ideas? ^^;

    • ShaiZer 2008/11/20 10:51  Modify/Delete  Address

      mm.. well i tried to go on with the list, but there were certain things that i just couldn't explain.. things that you just have to know it yourself.. you know.. things that you can only learn by experience.. well i guess thats what relationship is kind of about.. things that you have to go through to know. It's not something that you can just catch on by reading ^^