He has no idea why he's not popular among women.
This is a pretty big problem that most of "single men" have.
You have to figure out the problem and start out by solving them.
Problems could be as simple as, not being humorous, being timid, avoiding
eye contacts, etc...

No women will just show up randomly and ask you out on a date.
Women, in most cases, are more timid than men.
There may be no guarantees that brave men will get the women,
but one thing for sure! Timid men will definately not get ANY women.

Unless you have the facial characteristics of celebrities or have talents, such as dancing, that is at pro status, if you are not good at building up conversations, you get a big "L" on your head.
Learn to build up conversations.

There are lots of ways in doing this.
One of the most recommended ways is to get a hold of your friend who
is popular among women. "Not the ones who swears in every other words"
Be around him/her and observe the way they talk.

Most important point in this is how they are bringing up the humor within themselves in order to carry on with their conversation.

&& Don't Ever Swear in front of women. Its a big No No!

Women will think guys who avoid eye contacts are not interested in them.
Make eye contacts. Look into women's eyes and read their facial expressions.
If you can't read their mind, you also can't win their heart.
Look into their eyes and read their mind within their expressions.

Stop staring at their boobs, they will be stunned and a bit freaked out.

First, You don't have to be the nicest man in Earth to get a women.
Just treat her like no other.

You may be ready and have your mind set. But what you might not notice is that
women can also read your minds by looking into your eyes.
If you are shooting out a beam that says "I'm a freak",
they will be a bit creeped out by you and do not want to be anywhere around you. Let's not be a little freak who beams out freakish eye contacts.

Let me be straight forward. Newbies are weak in making decisions.
You maybe brave and are good in making conversation,
but women can see your black-heart by looking into your eyes.

You might look like a wolf aiming for a lone sheep.

Empty your mind and treat her comfortably.
It will be much easier to get closer to her.

Be a Man! There are guys who just can't go any further
than being just as a friend.
The reason for this is because they tried to stand as
Neutral and not as a Man.

From time to time, you have to show women your manly sex appeals.

There are lots of ways to show that you are a real man.
But making decision in the right time and leading
in physical skinship may also be ones to consider.

Most important thing is the 'Timing'
Right timing first comes from experiences,
and secondly from grasping the person.
(But don't be a pervert, Learn to reach out when the other person want.)

Who doesn't like kind men?
But there's only one person that you should be kind to.

By being kind to others, you may leave a favorable impression,
but you may also lose that impression from the person you want to win over.

Dating is an 1:1 battle. It's hard getting into a relationship if you try to win over
multiple ppl's heart.

Don't ever be too serious about relationship.
meet up with the person lightly. if they back up, be patient and wait for them.
if they come out, go out just a little bit more.
If you follow them when they are backing up, you become a stalker.

Losen your shoulders and meet up with a person lightly.
There eventually are going to be moments when you really have to be serious.

Until then, save up your seriousness.

If you really care, study. What's love and what makes complications.
if you treat a woman jus like how you treat your guy friends,
you may fall into a hole that you might not be able to come back out.

If you want to get into a relationship, building experiences are your best options.
To be very honest, even if I tell you all these stuff, if you haven't experienced these stuff it's all for nothing.

If you can't learn to share eye contacts and realize something from her two eyes, you are done for.

It's somewhat like riding a bicycle. One you get a  hang of it, it's not too hard, but if you haven't had a chance to ride it, you have no idea how the whole thing works. Instead of reading the guide over and over, one experience in riding it may actually help more.

To be honest, it took me hours in thinking whether this topic is humane to even deal with and if I chose to write it, how can I make this persuasive or just right. I think it's ironic how I thought of this topic whether or not it has anything to do with me.

I. First things first! What's most important?

When one starts to like a girl who already has a boyfriend..
These are the topics that you would most likely to get advised by your friends..

1) How's her relationship with her boyfriend?
2) So, there she is. Do you have any chance with her?
3) Let's pretend she's all yours. What are your plans? [What now?]
4) How will you be able to turn her heart?
5) What are the possible risk when fail?
6) Everyone's position in what's wrong and what's right.

However...
There are things that are even more important than all of these above.
I've asked couple of my friends about this topic and they had listed some of these
topics on above, but like others, they are most likely to forget this major point.

Most important point is "desperation"
And the 2nd one is "The confidence that you can make this person happier from where she is now"

Are you desperate enough, even to be truthful to your own emotion..
Or is it just because "she's pretty hot", "I feel lonely on weekends", or "What do I have to lose?"
What I'm trying to say is that,
Without desperation that she is the only one for you, there shouldn't even be a start.
If this is where you are heading [w/o desperation], you are just being disrespectful to her.

With desperation, if you have what it takes to be the one*, try and think about
Whether you have the ability to make her happier from where she is now.
In fact, you may not even be sure of how her relationship is with her boyfriend, but the most important
thing in this is the fact that you had taken this in consideration and had at least thought about it.
Because your action is based on your thoughts and what you consider of.

With these two points, you don't take account of the damage that you get from failing.
If you had already thought about pain received from failing, it means that you aren't "desperate".

when I take account of my past experiences, I would only have a fear that "this may be my only
chance in seeing this girl" and not "What if I get rejected". That's the kind of desperation that we
look for when in a relationship.

II. Questions without answers

Unless the girl speaks for herself that she's having a hard time with her boyfriend,
you can't assume where she's standing in her relationship. As for examples, rumors or gossips
that others say of her and her boyfriend's relationship are not valid.

Therefore, there is no real chance that you can calculate chances that this person will come to you.

III. Being a person she needs without having to burden

Are you desperate? Are you confidence?
Then be a person who she must have, a person she needs.

IV. Trust

This is where trust comes in and your patience.

So you fullfilled her needs and became the person who
she even left her boyfriend for. Should you be happy now?

The answer is 'No'.

Even if this girl may not remember, you do. She left her boyfriend for
someone new. And your head is telling you that this can also happen to you.
With this suspicion in your head, would you really be able to have the love of your life?

Suspicion and doubt are ways to failure.

So, you need trust and patience.

V. DONZO!

To be straight forward, its your desperation towards the girl you like, and patience for the right timing that will lead you to success. If you can't do these two things, I would rather have you tell me that you are giving up.

Ps. I personally thought this blog entry would turn out to be way much more better than what it had actually came out to be. But.. I gues not..

When it comes to a relationship, we often realize that the 'attachment' takes a bigger role than feeling of 'affection' itself. But the funny thing is, you just happen to feel attached to some people just by keep seeing each other. Unconciously, this feeling often turns into more of an affectionate feeling which we refer to as 'love'. If we think more deeply of these words another word pops up which fits nicely in between these words and it is 'amiable disposition'. But most of the time, you aren't too sure what the your opponent has to offer you. So! What are we supposed to do when this happens to us?

2. Check up on facial expressions  

There are some people who suddenly makes straight/frowning faces whenever you show up. There's two possibilities. Whether the person in front of you feels something that is beyond amiable disposition is just in love with you, or they just simply hate your guts. In this case, if a person seem to not pay attention to you or make bored faces, you can pretty much conclude that this person hates you.

3. Check up on them whether they copy your moves

Most people think girls can be late to a date at least for 30-40 minutes, but that's an old school way of thinking. Come out early from your place then watch him come from aside. After 5 minutes, run out as if you were late to the place.

By a psychological theory, feelings are expressed through distance between people. As a girl gets closer to a guy, the guy feel more interested in a girl sitting next him. If you met a guy you are interested in, i highly recommend that you sit next to him rather than in front of him.

Guys don't like girls who is strong minded. Unless the guy is a total turn-off, act as if you are listening to what he's saying and smile every-so-often to express how much fun you are having.

If you clearly express what you "like" and "dislike", it makes you look very strong. Try to avoid using negative words such as 'never' and 'hate'.

Try not to ask a guy to a date, even if you are interested. However, you can send text messages that would leave guys that you are somewhat interested. This only works after the first date.

I don't mean it as in being "i'm all that", but try to act as if you are someone who gets call from all the guys in earth. Try to keep the text messages and calls going, in order to make the opponent to think that you are the "popular" one. Even the calls from your girl-friends, lets try to act it out and transform them into calls from guy-friends.

The first impression that you want to get it across men, are that you are not boring. Somethings totally random like not answering your phone or not showing up on a date would make guys to feel in tense and that they need to keep in touch with you.

Place like his room, office, car would be perfect to leave your phone, wallet or namecards. As in excuse, the guys would have to see you again. If they respond with, "i'll send it to you through mail", say you are close by and would pick you up. This requires somewhat of fast comeback skills.

Someone who you tell your problems and seek advice from, has to be someone close. Act as if this little problem had broken your heart and depend on him by asking him for advice. But, do not ask advices for something that's really big. They might feel burdened by you.

Take a sip of what he was drinking, or take a bite of what he has ordered. This take a big part in getting to know each other. It works the best especially when you use the same fork that he was using or use the straw that he used to drink his drink. This would let guys to think as if it was a physical touch even when it wasn't.

I don't mean it as in very sexual way. But if we were to pretend that you are in the situation where everyone's drinking. Act as if you can't take on much alcohol and lean on his shoulder. And when you go to places where there are lots of people, lean towards the person you are interested in as you've been pushed. Even by a slight touch of your body, he probably would feel sudden interest through human instinct. But try not to get too touchy, where he would think you are trying to hook up with him.