1.
Comes 5 minutes late on a date.
Most people think girls can be late to a date at least for 30-40 minutes, but that's an old school way of thinking. Come out early from your place then watch him come from aside. After 5 minutes, run out as if you were late to the place.
2.
Sit next to a guy that you are interested in.
By a psychological theory, feelings are expressed through distance between people. As a girl gets closer to a guy, the guy feel more interested in a girl sitting next him. If you met a guy you are interested in, i highly recommend that you sit next to him rather than in front of him.
3.
Act as if you are always interested.
Guys don't like girls who is strong minded. Unless the guy is a total turn-off, act as if you are listening to what he's saying and smile every-so-often to express how much fun you are having.
4.
Don't be straight forward, learn to go around.
If you clearly express what you "like" and "dislike", it makes you look very strong. Try to avoid using negative words such as 'never' and 'hate'.
5.
Use your cellphone.
Try not to ask a guy to a date, even if you are interested. However, you can send text messages that would leave guys that you are somewhat interested. This only works after the first date.
6.
Act as if you get all the attention
I don't mean it as in being "i'm all that", but try to act as if you are someone who gets call from all the guys in earth. Try to keep the text messages and calls going, in order to make the opponent to think that you are the "popular" one. Even the calls from your girl-friends, lets try to act it out and transform them into calls from guy-friends.
7.
Be Random(?).
The first impression that you want to get it across men, are that you are not boring. Somethings totally random like not answering your phone or not showing up on a date would make guys to feel in tense and that they need to keep in touch with you.
8.
Always leave something behind.
Place like his room, office, car would be perfect to leave your phone, wallet or namecards. As in excuse, the guys would have to see you again. If they respond with, "i'll send it to you through mail", say you are close by and would pick you up. This requires somewhat of fast comeback skills.
9.
Use him as an advisor.
Someone who you tell your problems and seek advice from, has to be someone close. Act as if this little problem had broken your heart and depend on him by asking him for advice. But, do not ask advices for something that's really big. They might feel burdened by you.
10.
Taste what he's eating.
Take a sip of what he was drinking, or take a bite of what he has ordered. This take a big part in getting to know each other. It works the best especially when you use the same fork that he was using or use the straw that he used to drink his drink. This would let guys to think as if it was a physical touch even when it wasn't.
11.
Lure him into a physical touch.
I don't mean it as in very sexual way. But if we were to pretend that you are in the situation where everyone's drinking. Act as if you can't take on much alcohol and lean on his shoulder. And when you go to places where there are lots of people, lean towards the person you are interested in as you've been pushed. Even by a slight touch of your body, he probably would feel sudden interest through human instinct. But try not to get too touchy, where he would think you are trying to hook up with him.
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